of blood is thinner than water

People say it is blood that is THICKER than water

What I observe more is the other way round, especially living with a fine example.

I don't mean to poke my nose into people's family affair, but can you understand how do I feel when I don't have the feel to tell even her closest sister that she was hospitalised?

And after telling her, her answers were: Ok let me know if there's any updates and take care.

J.U.S.T.L.I.K.E.T.H.A.T

Then I reached home knowing I have to clean the toilet and her clothes with diarrhoea....because time would help the bacteria to grow more happily if it was not cleaned...

And the toilet will suffer..and so do I

Today morning while I was cleaning up her room from the heavy diarrhea before rushing to my friend's open house (she was really unfit to even bend down), I was telling her that she should go to the homes...

She said it was too expensive..

Then after coming back from the open house at about 6pm today (i brought some food for her also since I have the feel that she won't be able to cook, and probably wont eat)...I saw her head tilted against my room's locked door with clothes half worn on the rattan chair.

My expression was OMG @@"
So, I asked her to go hospital and she said she wants to take a cab.
I looked at her like this =.= and said, who's gonna carry you to the cab?

Then I said I need to call ambulance.
And so the ambulance came.

After reaching home at 9pm, all the phones came non-stop.

First was from her money-minded cousin:
Uncle S: Where is J?
Me: She was hospitalised. Just sent her to the hospital with the ambulance.
Uncle S: Oh
Me: speechless (too moody with J's sister comments thati CBB)
Uncle S: Why hospitalised?
Me: She was very weak lah
Uncle S: Did you inform her sis?
Me: (Am I supposed to cover all these? Not being calculative but I was only thinking, he could have done it and inform her right? Anyway, he has an 'RP' (personality) that i could never be fond of and never respected him) Yes I just told her
Uncle S: Tomoro I may not have time to go see her leh
Me: (bursted) Up to you whether have time or not, you all are her relatives. Anyway, you guys always no time one lah
Me: hang up the phone

Minutes later, phone rings again

Uncle S: Can I know which hospital she went to?
Me: Alexandra
Uncle S: Which ward and bed ah?
Me: I don't know coz I was not informed yet. the registration counter is open and you can ask them one.
Uncle S: Thanks
Me: bye

then minutes later, her old friend called...and said he tried getting her whole day..
I told her she was hopsitalised and said I couldn't access the mailbox. he left something for her.

Then minutes later, he called again asking which hospital again (this is quite old uncle that i didn't feel that angry when responding to him coz he sounded nice) and said his leg is in pain, may not be able to see her. I said, it's okay, got heart can already. Some people don't even have heart what more is time.

Then after that, her cousin's wife called. This time, she asked, what happened, why, and then was it serious?
I was like =.=" if not serious can go hospital one meh? And if don't know the ward, please go and ask at the counter.

haihz

practical people
and all these are rich people leh....
sigh...

my mom was laughing so much to see my insulting comments. too bad lah, i may sound really b**chy but these people don't earn my respect and so I really CBB.

so long~

Back already lahhhh...

I'm back from the short holiday!!
Seems that holidays is never long, and days and nights flew off just like that..
The dreadfullness (despite soooo many donkey years and trips from home to here) never go away...
When will I be more mature ah?
Anyway, CBB..
:S

Mersing has lotsa nice places leh!
And *proudly grinning yet guilty contradictory; I think I've gained weight =.="

My beloved doggies... ~

Volunteering at Chin Chee Kok temple..while my bro (and my parents) are still active in this.. me not anymore though :(

Updates of Mersing trip: A piece of rock with lotsa oysters shell! Edible oysters don't have though (left panel)... And seafood galore (right panel)! Middle picture was crayfish as huge as a palm! :P
Had it near Tanjung Gemuk Jetty restaurant..

 Hehehe...our durian buffet trip... not forgetting a bash of squirrel-eaten durian as well..tasted really nice! And it was eye-widening for me too, how could squirrel eat such a hard-shelled fruit.. The hole that they (or individual?) bored was pretty huge...

Kite flying (my bro flew it up while I successfully dragged it down *muahahaha evil look*)
This was at Kg. Air Papan beach

 This romantic-looking place was at the further away-located beach near Mersing Jetty, a place where one can lie on the grass and read! :P

Anyway, I realised that I'm still not completely ready to let go of the past, despite the flying time...
Sigh..
The 'serba-salah' feeling is still there..
Really wondering what else can be done..
But it's better lah..

Need to be less emo but it's still.. there..

I'm thinking of going volunteering in animal shelters.. (previously I had mine in MINDS, but it's a bit too far)
But volunteering need commitment of weeks.. if I'm away for a holiday, who can take my place ah?
Hmmmm...

Let me think about it first..

Brothers... Urgh...

Was telling my bro today: you only Hv one sis in ur lifetime u know!:p
(becoz he was too busy and tired to entertain me ><)
Anyway it was a lament from okay news to a good news ... So his reply could no longer be bothered:p
Happy news!!^^

And he's my brother whom was tired driving non stop for about 6 hrs today
Okayla.. Forgive him;)

Short updates

Aloooo~~
Yep, short updates on me..
Been so inactive lately in blogging part and also in visiting other's blogs..
Procastination is definitely the case..but being busy too is one of the reasons. Works are piling up as always.

I went back home just in time to celebrate my dad's birthday, brother's birthday and also Father's day. All-in-one trip. Not forgetting, Mother's day one since I failed to go back home in May.
So four-in-one huh?:P
So unwillingly have to come back though most of the time was spent shopping with family, especially with my mom :D
I was very glad too because all of us was around. Lucky that both my brothers were available to celebrate all these special events together.

We went Rakuzen for Japanese buffet lunch located at Chulan Square, since both my parents hardly indulge in Japanese food. We were taking efforts in organising this grand lunch especially for our beloved dad. However, we did had some setbacks because my brother wanted them to have traditional Chinese cookings in restaurants (because he's worried that my parents might not be enjoying the food), but I wanted something more extraordinary since my parents seldom eat Japanese food, and what more, buffet style.

Initially, I wanted them to have it at the Rakuzen@Sri Hartamas since I found many good recommendations at that place but unfortunately, they were fully booked :(
So, we reserved the Chulan Square's one.
The food was good, and the service was excellent! I especially liked the green tea ice cream :D
The amount of salmon fish that I took was also =.+"
I think I will stop having raw salmon fish for some time..

Overall, it was definitely a good one! At least, I'm truly glad that my parents did enjoyed the food too..hehe
They say they wouldn't mind going for food like this again. =D

I managed to meet up very few friends only this time for simple meet ups and also indulge in some good music!

Then, I finally went to Universal Studio Singapore and Sentosa and we had lotsa fun there!
Thanks for the souvenirs and the rides! Hehe :D

As for now, more work to come.
Some of the good news are:

1. I'll be meeting an old friend who had taught me lots of things when I was doing my practical years ago in here soon! hehe :D
2. My sort-of-godbrother- unofficial one is going to commence and get his pHD title!! Finally~~!!! :D  
3. My another old friend will be coming here for a short visit!
4. I'll get to watch my senior to graduate too! Am so glad!
5. Probably some old friends will be dropping by here too if they can make it, since they'll be having a long holiday in M'sia. We'll see we'll see;)

Anyway, hopefully things will be smoother by September =)
Remember that time flies, so please treasure time with your family. I realised that my parents are aging so fast, and that I hardly spend much time with them. I hope I don't regret this in years to come.

So long~