Hapy nEw YeAr!! A new year, new beginning,,

Happy new year 2011!!!

This is a year where most of us of my age will flashbacks our 1/4 century days,and either feel very emo, or emo about it..okay, not forgetting those that would be glad too- for those that had accomplished one of many life missions :)

I'm sure many would be emo, especially those in singledom
I didn't mean to start this note with an emo note, but I want to say here is, to you all out there who felt the same like me: Don't give up!

This is a year we all should be:

1. Make realistic resolutions
2. Be more courageous, time to do what we should, feel what we should, try what we hadn't, set a new path/ direction in life
3. No more lagging or losing motivations because this is an age where we're considered good enough for most things!
4. Those single ones, time to think seriously, get into relationships, grab chances, find the right person!
5. Those attached ones, start thinking: is this the right person? If yes, proceed, if not, better move on. It's always better to break and find someone right rather than keep dragging the sad relationship because couldn't bear to be single
6. More travelling!! Time to look out more! This is one of the age we get to do most of what we want to, though with financial hardships. But we can always travel and spend wisely.. right? Rather than to save save and later, still..save but going nowhere? Imagine an attached life with families, I bet there'll be less reasons to travel more (at least for those with baby kids)
7. Play and work hard!!
8. Instead of waiting, we should be the ones that move forward, regardless in anything.. so keep motivated!
9. Those who want to earn more money? Time for serious investments :)

Wish you guys good luck in everything!!
I hope you guys will give a happy and satisfying answer when you ask yourselves 25 more years later, what have i done in my first 1/2 of life..

Happy new year, once again!! :)

Hello to few days to a new year!

Before the year 2010 ends,
let me recap my 'happenings':

1. Blurly anticipated NY2010 and CNY2010
2. Rushing against time
3. Improvisations
4. Slashing out unwanted attention and inappropriate desires
5. Coping with life
6. Vacations!
7. Good slept-well like a pig nights compared to the previous year, only lagging pc
8. finally own a new pc!
9. lotsa buffet dinners and lunchs.. zzz...is that an accomplishment??!
10. Ongoing motivations
11. Much much more peaceful life! ^^
12. Moved to a new place, meeting superb landlady :) What a destiny
13. Go on~ Let old stuffs be bygones~
14. Many memorable days
15. Learning that impossible is actually possible
16. Able to hold to own priciples still, salute!
17. Some skills had definitely improved tremendously
18. Laughed so much more compared to the year before? I dunno..after all always laugh like what only..:D
19. Learned to appreciate more, no longer take things for granted.
20. Learned that life is definitely, uber, confirmed, is not a bed of roses and that we should fight for what we want and not wait for chances only..

NY resolutions?

(ahem, not listing here lah!)

Happy New Year people! May this year be a much much better year, something that MOST of our dreams will come true! :)

Expectations

Not that I expect much
But 2 main things that I hate the most in my life:
1. Being threatened
2. Being accused

Nothing else..but not these two!

Not trying to be so emo in this blog but just couldn't help it
perhaps I should not take life SO seriously~

Lousy!!

As we go on~

The Xmas celebrations are up already! Though it's like more than a month before Xmas..
All the trees were decorated
This is like so fast and early!
And it also marks the end of the year already, which some people are dreading while some others are looking forward..
5 months ago we've realised it's aready 0.5 years..then when reached september in a blink of eyes, again..
Ouch...
And now Xmas..

Just realised that when we're studying, we look forward to graduating
But those that are working ones, are dreading the fact that they're losing directions and motivations..
Sometimes, when I look at those older senior people, I would wonder if they've had those dilemmas and worries and lack-of-motivations life as we are
And how strong they would have been in order to reach such an old age?

Reminds me of a conversation with someone close to me 2 days ago

A rich company director pensioner was strolling on a beach on a fine evening when he spotted a young man of early 30s lying on the sand and looking at the sky. They both smiled and this retiree asked him, "Young man, I see you doing nothing except lying here all day. Why you didn't work hard to earn more money at such a young and energetic age?"
The young man replied politely, "For what I should earn more money?"
The retiree said, when I was as young as you, I worked very hard and earn lots of money. When I'm retired, like right now, I'm reaping the fruits that I've sowed many years ago, by going on holidays, staying in luxurious hotels and like right now, relaxing by the beach and enjoying the world.
The young man replied, "And isn't that what I'm doing right now?"

We always keep telling ourselves, keep going, keep going!
Is there a valid motivator that pushes us right now? Are the goals relevant and worth it?
I don't know.

One thing for sure, we cause more unhappiness when we set higher goals that we can't make it real at the moment. The higher we set, the deeper are our cravings and the worst are our feelings.
Simplicity is always the best!

I don't want a suffering life, as life is really short.
Treasure the moments ok?

So long~
 

Do all things happen for a reason?

I used to believe that things happen for a reason.
Really..
For everything that has been happening
Though rarely, but surprisingly, despite how bad the situation is, I still managed to find a good reason behind it


But not for this particular event
I doubt it!
Why shouldn't it be the way I wished for, just for this case?
Sigh

Alright alright, things happen for a reason
Will take time to ponder on this