Kids and wisdoms

Fluorescent-shirt boy asking the younger boy (wearing red shirt) in Chinese, which parent do you prefer?
Younger boy said: my dad. Mom is not good.
Older boy was surprised and said, in Chinese proverb, mom is always the most important. Both your parents worked hard. Your mom bought you all the toys, you know... How could you said your mom like that?
Younger boy: .... Dunno what happened after that (I didn continue 'eavesdropping' but..)
Younger boy started slapping his face himself and both the elder boy (fluorescent t-shirt) and his another sibling said: enough already, don't slap anymore ya..

 

:) 

I was enjoying the live band at the Esplanade area, while overlooking the Singapore river.. Nice weather for some soul-searching activity.. 

Suddenly, a cute little girl came towards me while I was mesmerised by the river.. in deep thoughts..

Her black huge eyes widened at the sight of me munching my pepero sticks..

And so, instincts told me to share my chocolate sticks with her..

After some moments, her family decided to leave the seats there and placed her on her stroller..

She reluctantly left with her eyes glued to me..and my chocolate sticks I supposed..

Didn't even bothered to wave goodbye at all..

Only her lingering eyes..

How cute.. =)

P/S: chocolate-flavoured food are indeed one's best friend when one is in deep thoughts..

So long~

Back already lahhhh...

I'm back from the short holiday!!
Seems that holidays is never long, and days and nights flew off just like that..
The dreadfullness (despite soooo many donkey years and trips from home to here) never go away...
When will I be more mature ah?
Anyway, CBB..
:S

Mersing has lotsa nice places leh!
And *proudly grinning yet guilty contradictory; I think I've gained weight =.="

My beloved doggies... ~

Volunteering at Chin Chee Kok temple..while my bro (and my parents) are still active in this.. me not anymore though :(

Updates of Mersing trip: A piece of rock with lotsa oysters shell! Edible oysters don't have though (left panel)... And seafood galore (right panel)! Middle picture was crayfish as huge as a palm! :P
Had it near Tanjung Gemuk Jetty restaurant..

 Hehehe...our durian buffet trip... not forgetting a bash of squirrel-eaten durian as well..tasted really nice! And it was eye-widening for me too, how could squirrel eat such a hard-shelled fruit.. The hole that they (or individual?) bored was pretty huge...

Kite flying (my bro flew it up while I successfully dragged it down *muahahaha evil look*)
This was at Kg. Air Papan beach

 This romantic-looking place was at the further away-located beach near Mersing Jetty, a place where one can lie on the grass and read! :P

Anyway, I realised that I'm still not completely ready to let go of the past, despite the flying time...
Sigh..
The 'serba-salah' feeling is still there..
Really wondering what else can be done..
But it's better lah..

Need to be less emo but it's still.. there..

I'm thinking of going volunteering in animal shelters.. (previously I had mine in MINDS, but it's a bit too far)
But volunteering need commitment of weeks.. if I'm away for a holiday, who can take my place ah?
Hmmmm...

Let me think about it first..

Balik kampung!!!

Can't wait to be home after such a longgggg visit previously.. Since cny?  @@"Can't wait to see everyone
Can't wait to sleep on my comfy bed in freezing air conditioned room (okay okay, less environmental friendly but I sleep with a fan here, okay?)
Can't wait to just stay rotten in parents' shop watching drama series (though I used to help them wipe shoes in any vacations earlier...now.. Getting lazier :( sigh.. Probably will help in other stuffs lahhh)
Can't wait to meet my beloved doggie of coz! (Missing him so soooooo much!!!)
Can't wait to play hide and seek with him, and let him leave some scratching scars while hugging my legs the moment I reach home's gate..
Can't wait to hug him sooooo tightly that he can't move at all though resisting, but with his tail vigorously wagging non-stop
And that everyone around can will the gush of wind too...
Or that his tail might wag too fast until get injured :p

By the way, aunt Joyce dug out a souvenir cup and an angpow..for mom
I wanna faint and of coz, die die oso won't accept lah
She must have forgotten her roles in accepting gifts from us and not the opposite
Haih.. This landlady ah... :S

Yesterday and today were different group of friends with either baby full moon celebration or 100 days celebration..

Which made us realised one thing: we're lagging behind in some very important aspects of life.. In our pursuit of our dreams that we think is very important..

So long~

Lessons learned: say no when you feel so

I have this deep sense of responsibilities when people asked for my help. And I'm way disappointed with myself for this.
I've finally learned this in a hard, hard way; that is: to say no when you just want to. And protect yourself. Sometimes, many thing just CBB anymore...

Please, please let me plant this in my mind!

I'm kind of disappointed that I only learn when I meet selfish people. And usually, a few events are needed to trigger this and not just once. Sigh
I'm just low in EQ I guess:(

And I've to learn not to trust people that easily anymore, despite their promises. But I'll continue keeping my words as I always will, and never hurt any party the way I do not want to be treated.

Lessons learned.. I confess here: I'm deeply disappointed with you bunch of selfish people..
Perhaps, I'm just not up to this game.. Or perhaps, I just care too much of others' feelings..

And now, I'm way too disappointed..

Sigh, I really need to go back to my happy self and not posting these kind of emo events anymore..

The gift hunting, farewell and karaoke sessions are more than enough to remember this- for.life.